That photo posted sophomore year could be the reason your child doesn’t get the internship.
Because in today’s hiring world, your child’s résumé isn’t the first thing recruiters pull up; it’s their digital footprint.
A public Venmo comment or even a tagged party pic can quietly cost them opportunities they didn’t know they missed.
The biggest problem? Most students don’t realize this until after they’ve already been ghosted by their dream job.
You might think privacy is just about keeping your DMs closed, but it’s actually about managing a personal brand before someone else defines it for you.
This post lays out the Student Privacy Blueprint: three essential steps that will help them clean up, lock down, and stand out before it costs more than they could ever imagine.
Why digital privacy isn’t optional anymore
Today, protecting your college student’s online presence means protecting their future—socially, financially, and professionally. Employers, scholarship panels, landlords, and even grad school admissions teams now use online searches as part of their decision process. And they don’t always tell you when they’re looking.
A survey by The Manifest found that about 90% of employers look at potential employees’ social media profiles, and 79% have rejected a candidate based on what they found.
For parents, especially those financially supporting their child’s education, this means digital safety is not just a tech issue. It’s career prep. It’s protection. It’s return on investment.
Let’s look closely at the steps you can follow to keep your college student in the clear.
Step 1: Clean up and audit what’s already out there
Before you can protect your college student’s online presence, you need to know what’s visible. Your child might be surprised by what’s still floating around out there.
Start with a Google search
Have your student type his or her name into Google, with and without quotes.
Try different variations: first + last, with middle names, even old usernames. Check images, videos, and news tabs. Then do the same on Bing and other search engines.
See anything questionable? Screenshots, old posts, cringey usernames from high school gaming days? If something is linked to your child’s real name, it matters.
Run through their accounts
Help your child log into each social platform they’ve ever used, even ones they’ve forgotten about and aren’t active on.
Focus on:
- Instagram (old and new handles)
- Facebook, Snapchat, Twitter (now X)
- LinkedIn (yes, even if unused)
- TikTok, Reddit, Discord
- Venmo (public activity is searchable)
Review his or her post history, bios, tagged content, comments, and even likes.
Many platforms let you bulk delete or hide old posts. Use those tools. For content you can’t control, like being tagged in other people’s photos, request takedowns or untag.
Don’t forget to check old blogs, YouTube channels, or websites. Anything that surfaces in search results becomes part of your child’s informal résumé.
Step 2: Lock down and strengthen your child’s digital boundaries
After cleaning up the digital trail, it’s time to build some guardrails. This is your chance to protect your college student’s online presence from new risks, scammers, impersonators, data leaks, and plain-old oversharing.
Adjust privacy settings everywhere
Most platforms offer privacy controls. They just bury them. Sit down together and go through each app.
Pay attention to:
- Limiting who can see posts, stories, and followers
- Disabling location tagging
- Restricting who can comment or message
- Controlling visibility of tagged posts
- Turning off “public activity” in apps like Venmo or Goodreads
Encourage a mindset of “private by default.” If it doesn’t need to be public, keep it between trusted friends. Anything online can be screen-shotted and shared, even content originally posted in private groups.
Use strong, unique passwords and MFA
Many students reuse passwords across platforms. It makes sense; with all the apps for school and platforms, it’s common to just want to log in quickly. But that’s not always a wise choice.
Encourage password managers like Bitwarden or 1Password to generate and store strong credentials. Turn on multi-factor authentication (MFA) wherever possible; it’s one of the best defenses against account takeovers.
Keep personal info private
Don’t share birthdays, phone numbers, campus addresses, or real-time locations publicly. Online predators and scammers comb social media for this data. Remember, even something as simple as a graduation countdown can reveal a dangerous amount of private information.
Step 3: Stand out and build a smart, professional digital brand
Once your child’s online footprint is cleaned and secured, it’s time to make it work for him or her. To truly protect your college student’s online presence, you also want to shape how they’re perceived before someone else does.
Create (or refresh) their LinkedIn profile
LinkedIn isn’t just for postgrads. It’s a live résumé that can show growth, involvement, and passion, even early in a student’s college experience.
Start with a friendly, clear photo (headshot style, not a party pic), write a thoughtful bio, and list jobs, internships, clubs, or volunteer work.
Have your child join relevant groups. Follow industry leaders. Engaging with posts (even if it’s just liking or commenting) can help build visibility. This is where recruiters come to look. Make your child’s online reputation accurate, active, and authentic.
Here are a few tips for creating a highly valuable summary.
When writing his or her summary:
- Don’t focus too much on specific accomplishments. Instead, focus on your chid’s core skills and experience.
- Open the summary with a thought-provoking statement or question to grab the reader’s attention. Use the first 300 characters wisely, as this is what will display before the “see more” prompt.
- Distill your child’s summary into one or two paragraphs to avoid boring the reader or sounding self-aggrandizing.
- Use strong keywords related to your child’s profession so recruiters can find him or her. You can list relevant keywords in the “Specialties” section.
Recognize that the summary is the core best online reputation management tool on LinkedIn.
You can find the full resource for making LinkedIn an online reputation tool here.
Google-proof your child’s name
Creating positive content can help push down unflattering items in search results.
Here’s how:
- Start a blog or portfolio site with his or her full name as the domain.
- Post about college projects, art, code, writing samples, or causes he or she cares about.
- Have your child guest-write for campus blogs or local publications.
- Make sure they use consistent name formatting across all platforms.
Even one well-ranked result can replace an old tweet in search. Google isn’t just about removing things; it’s also about replacing them.
Practice professionalism across digital platforms
Remind your child that his or her audience isn’t just friends anymore. A professor, internship supervisor, or hiring manager could be one search away.
Before your child posts anything, have them ask him or herself: “Would I be okay with an employer seeing this?” If the answer is no, it’s better left offline.
Your guidance makes the difference
To protect a college student’s online presence is to protect your investment in his or her future.
As a parent, you didn’t have to grow up under this kind of digital magnifying glass, but your kids are living in it. It’s a fishbowl with a thousand cameras always zooming in and capturing every move they make.
Helping your child understand the stakes doesn’t have to feel like a lecture. Frame it as preparation, just like building a résumé or practicing for interviews. Your child’s digital life is part of his or her story, and with the right steps, he or she can take control of how it’s told.
Don’t wait until a missed offer or awkward call from HR highlights a problem. Start the privacy checkup now. You can start for free with a full online audit and then take it from there.
With just a few focused actions, your child can clean up his or her online presence, secure it against future mistakes, and build a brand that opens doors instead of closing them. Empowering them starts with you.
This post was contributed by Rockey Simmons, founder of SaaS Marketing Growth.